11.16.2009

追憶`~




還記得我從來沒有見過你真人一面;還記得我第一次被你迷住,是看到你說「做人不像做電視台,無須時時刻刻都要有節目!」,還記得當時我第一次知道什麼是「幽默」,而更加幽默的是,我當時正在撘小巴去亞視見工,見的是「節目製作助理」;還記得讀中學時,我曾經問過老師,點解有「甲骨文」,而無「乙骨文」、「丙骨文」同「丁骨文」...還記得老師不但沒有回答我,還以我在「上堂時搞亂」為罪名,記了我一個〈缺點〉,我還記得很多年之後,看到你說「穿山甲的朋友是穿山乙與穿山丙....」我笑著默認,把這些當是「爛gag」的人,一定比欣賞這種幽默的人多,還多好多倍,所以識笑的人,証明他們有幽默感;我還記得曾經因為林憶蓮的「哭」、「依然」、「野花」、劉美君的「事後」,蔡齡齡的「細水長流」,懷疑過你是Gay的,但我還記得,每次聽到夏詔聲的「空凳」、「結他低泣時」,林子祥的「追憶」,郭富城的「強」,張學友的「藍雨」、「每天愛你多一些」、「再度重遇你」、「花花公子」,太極的「頂天立地」,周潤發的「飛沙風中轉」...我肯定你就算係同性戀者,也都是女同性戀,仲係TB,因為你係一個好MAN的女人!還記得因為你「追憶」內一段「從前在那炎夏裡的暑假 跟我爸爸笑著行 沿途談談來日我的打算 首次跟他喝啖酒...」,便我在十八歲那年,買了第一枝酒,首次跟父親飲酒交心,但原來父親半杯就醉得不醒人事,我還記得當時我看著攤在床上暈住嘔的父親,不自禁地說「這種黑色幽默,真的很林振強!」我還記得某年某月某日,我跟某創作人說「我的創作風格,很受林振強影響」,那位創作人苦口婆心,勸我別要再跟其他人這樣說,以我的創作水準,這樣說簡直是侮辱林振強!還記得我依然希望有一日能夠有你的十份一才華;我還記得有袋就要有你的書在裡面,有乜頭暈生慶,迷迷惘惘,上便下秘時,一睇花開富貴,思路暢通,橋如泉湧;還記得你離開的那一天,是我一個朋友的生日,我借你過橋,話因為你離開,所以無心情食生日飯,慳番幾千....

還記得很多很多關你事的東西,此刻最記得的還是這兩句「一個真正喜歡食生果的人,應該死在波羅的海」,一個搞笑的人,就算死了依然引人發笑!

11 comments:

Lalu said...

他永遠存在每人的心中

蘇菲 said...

每次聴到"追憶"我都會哭和想起爸爸..........

Anonymous said...

能夠有父親出現於自己的回憶裡, 已經是幸福得令人羨慕.

~艾菲

Anonymous said...

我爸約在我 7 歲便離開 , 小的時候太窮 , 常常有奇異的想辦 , 例如他是去行船又或者是去了舊金山 , 會突然間在我最需要時候出現 , 至到我讀完中學 , 才明白這些事是不會發生.......

Sav said...

My papa passed away for almost 15 years where I still feel him around. I just wish I could have told him how much I love him when he was alive and healthy. But, as a "tight ass", and like most of the others ... we never tell our parents how much we love them ...

When was your last time you kiss your mom or papa?
When was your last hug to them?
When did you last tell them you love them with words? Yes, words, not "dim sum", not gift, not money ...

When we were young, we kissed our parents, hugged them, sang them songs and spoke out loud "I love you", drew silly cards and wrote silly poems to them ... how come these all became taboo when we grow up?

Last winter, one night ... I hugged and kissed my mom. The old lady was not shocked and shy as I expected. instead, she gave me a big sweet smile, in a face which looked 30 yrs younger! At that very moment, I was her little girl again ...

Imagine how much our parents have kissed us when we were a kid ...

Imagine how much they've hugged us .. when we're happy, scared, after a fight with classmates, won a race ...

Imagine how many times they carried us in their warms arms and told us they love me ....


Sorry, this is too long, please don't post. Don't know what's wrong with me.

Have a nice and cool night Beach!

龍兒 said...

很遺憾,跟父親的回憶中,還沒有愉快的經歷。

Anonymous said...

我也是强伯fans。
在他最後的日子裡,他於專欄中回憶自己的成長過程,感覺有如道別……
永遠懷念他的才華與幽默。

Anonymous said...

我更懷念洋蔥頭大四喜。當年我百看不厭。

Mr. G

Anonymous said...

強伯,強伯, 真的很掛念您......

從來不是強伯的家姐---林燕妮小姐的fans, 但自從強伯走了之後, 林燕妮小姐不時會在專欄中憶述跟強伯小時候一起生活的點滴,我會追看並剪存那些文章, (幸好那些文章後來結集成書), 作為對強伯的追憶。

強伯, 你走後, 我把那本《又喊又笑》翻了又翻, 每次只捨得讀一篇篇章, 過程中, 喊了又笑, 笑完又喊。

真的非常懷念您, 一直未停過......

tingpong said...

強伯 R.I.P.
you probably is the most under-rated creative worker in HK, but i rather believe this is what you want to enjoy your life...

candykit said...

我有個朋友,和家人的關係不好;每天都會找地方流連至深夜,到家人都睡了,才肯回家。

或者真是家家有本難唸的經,我並不明白,一家人,到底有什麼血海深仇,要弄到這樣的地
步?

我相信,與一個人的相識、偶遇,也需要緣份。到底要有多少緣份,那個人才會成為你的家人?朋友、另一半,你都可以為自己選擇;家人,是上天送給你的一份禮物。有家人在身邊、能親口對他們說聲「我愛你」,是種幸福。請在他們還在你身邊的時候,把握機會,好好的珍惜他們。

永遠懷念林振強先生,和我的爸爸、媽媽。